Child Safety: 5 Things that Will Help Keep Your Bolting Child Safe

Child Safety:

I’d like to be able to just let my kids roam freely. But my daughter Moxie figured out a way to escape recently. She took her brother’s stool, put it under the door, unlocked the slide lock turned the handle, walked down the flight of stairs and slipped under the gate to go and wander the street.

After that I heart attack, I wrote this post, you all came through and gave me a ton of helpful links and suggestions. I coupled those up with the few things I have found to be successful in keeping my children safer.

Bolting or running away is evidently very common with kids with Down syndrome. This list is probably handy even if your kid doesn’t have Down syndrome or a disability; many of these I’ll be using (or have used) with my typically-developing sons (aged 5 years and 6 months).

Here are the tips:

1. GPS tracking device.

I really like this option, personally. There are a lot of variations on the same theme – attach something to your child and an alarm will blare when they have gone beyond a set distance from you.

a. The Guardian Angel for 4 Kid’s Tracker Child Children Locator Alarm Family Protection Security Babysitter has these little ladybug things that you can attach on each child – great for families like us that have more than one child and get out/travel  a lot.

(they also seem to come with just one ladybug, for families with a singleton)

 


b. The Amber Alert GPS Child Locator Tracking Device looks like it’s excellent.It’s fully tricked out:

  • SOS Button: Be notified immediately if your child needs help. If your child is in a dangerous or threatening situation, or has a medical emergency, he/she can press the SOS button. The device will then send an “SOS” email and/or text with your child’s location to you and those trusted individuals you designate to receive SOS Alerts.
  • 2 Way Voice: Speak directly to your child anytime – or have them call you. Simply call the device to listen in to the surroundings of your child and be assured that they are okay. By pressing the voice button, your child can call you so that you can listen in.
  • Customized Zones: Want to know when your child arrives or leaves school, home or soccer practice? With the Amber Alert GPS device, you define a virtual boundary or zone around anywhere you choose. You then receive an alert, via email and/or text, when your child enters or exits a zone.
  • Predator Alerts: Amber Alert GPS is synced with the National Sex Offender Registry and updated every 24 hours. With the Amber Alert GPS device, you are notified when your child or teen gets within 500 feet of a registered sex offenders residence.
  • Additional Features include: Locate Via Computer & App, Breadcrumbing, Speed Alert, and Low Battery Alert.

 NOTE: there is some kind of promotion going on now with Amber Alert – free device with signing up for 3 year contract ($14.99/month)

AmberAlert seems like a pricey but good way to go – they ranked #3 for Best GPS Tracker (here’s the review).

ADDITIONAL NOTE: check in with your local Sheriff’s Office and/or County Office: word is that some offices have Amber Alert/GPS device programs for kids. I’m currently in the process of checking with mine, so I don’t have any advice yet for local friends.


c. The PGD PG66-G Real-time Silicone Gel GPS Tracking Watch Quad-band Watch 1.3″ TFT Touch Screen 1.3MPx Camera Security with SOS Function for Eldder/Kids/Criminal/Pet (Black) seems like a good deal for boys – I think it looks huge and would fall off of dainty little Moxie’s wrist. But it looks perfect for Micah. It’s $100 and it doesn’t seem to need a subscription service.

I’m still looking for something like this that is a better fit for Moxie.

2. ID Bracelets:

According to the Police, only phone numbers, not names should be listed. This makes sense, but it does put families like us at a quandry. I suppose since we will have different phone numbers at each country along the PanAm, we will just need to make a new ID bracelet for Moxie (and it won’t hurt to make one for the boys too) at each country.

a. The Ankle ID: I liked this one a lot . It’s great because it goes on the ankle and looks like it will pack a lot of information on that little plate.


b. Jewelry-type ID Bracelets: personally, these seem like a way to go with someone like Moxie. She likes that kind of thing and as long as it fits and the metal doesn’t make her skin react, it seems like a great long-term option.

 

NOTE: Maybe I’m totally off here but those velcro bracelet options just seem dumb. Kids will open those suckers up in two seconds.

3. Sound Alerts:

a. Door Alarms: A lot of people seem to use these. It’s simple: the alarm goes off when the door is opened. You can program them and get them to stop/go. They are inexpensive and seem to be easy to install. For other deaf folk, I’m pretty sure there is a flashing lights version – check with your local Deaf resource center (Bay Area folk, that’s DCARA)

shoes b. Squeaker shoes: This is something really simple, but if you can hear the high pitch from the squeak and if your child is wearing these, you’ll be able to have an idea of where your child is. We bought Moxie’s squeaker boots from zulily.com – zulily has great quality shoes (featured nearly daily) for around $20 that have removable squeakers.

c. Jingly jewelry: I personally like this option for my child as – like the squeaker shoes – it meshes easily with what she likes and finds attractive, and with my hearing aids on, I can hear them. They are like cute cowbells, I guess. But whatever. It works. I know where she is and that’s what counts.

4. Barriers

For the truly savvy kid (read: YOUR KID), gates aren’t likely to be anything more than a hurdle. It’s going to slow them down but not stop them. Still, when you are dealing with kids as fast as ours, a hurdle is still a desirable thing, right? There are a ton of gates out there, here are 3 types that caught my eye as they seem travel-ready or come highly recommended:

a. Extra Tall Gates: My friend sent me this link to some gates that she said were great with her child. They look super.

b. Tension Mounted Anywhere Gates: These are what I went for as I need to have something that we can bring with us. I need portable, something that doesn’t need to be installed with a screwdriver.


c. Driveway Safety Net: This is great because while they will NOT stop our kids from going, they serve as a bright visual reminder of how far to go. Easy to install, portable. These are definitely going with us on the Pan Am.

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Deadbolts: This seemed really extreme to me until Moxie, my just-turned 3 year old daughter, figured out how work the slide lock on the back door – yeah, the one she had to drag a stool to and still reach up to finagle.

If you have a child with a propensity to escape, GET ONE NOW.

There are hundreds out there to choose from; this is just one that came recommended by a friend.

 

5. While Out: Simple Solutions

a. Monkey on Their Backs: Harnesses: I know, I know. Putting putting what is in essence a leash on your kid isn’t attractive and makes you feel like the crunchy Berkeley parents are going to spit on you and call CPS. But what’s better – that or calling the Police yourself because your kid ran too fast through legs in a crowd and you lost her?

 NOTE: I only got Moxie to wear this after a lot of effort. Wearing it around the house, having her big brother (and superstar) wearing it to help out (= make it desirable).

b. High-Visibility Clothes. Like a neon-pink vest or neon-green shirts. If you have more than one child, getting them to wear the same colour would be a good idea – then you just have to keep your eye on the kids in green or pink or yellow or whatever.

– Did I miss anything? Please tell me in the comments what works for you that I left out here – thanks!

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Meriah

is a deaf blogger, global nomad, tech-junkie, cat-lover, Trekkie, Celto-Teutonic-peasant-handed mom of 3 (one with Down syndrome and one gifted 2E).

She likes her coffee black and hot.


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8 Comments

  • We live abroad and frequently have new phone numbers. I have tried various options – bracelets, special emergency info kid tattoos, etc. The one that works best for my kids (8 years old) are the In Case of Emergency (ICOE) silicone bracelets. http://www.icoebracelets.com/
    They are reasonably priced, can withstand a lot of abuse, and look like a lot of the fun arm bands that kids wear these days. We started using them a few years ago for birthday parties, summer camp, sightseeing in a new town for a day, and anytime the kids would be out and about without us. My girls now just wear them all the time. I have tended to have a US Vonage/Skype number that I am able to either forward to another phone number – or get an email alert on when a call comes thru. That number is always on the bracelet along with whatever is the best local number. They also have bracelets for allergies and medical conditions. Good luck and safe travels!

  • Neighbors! Talk with all the neighbors you can/want to. They can be helpful if your child gets out and is spotted running down the street without his/her family. I talked to all of my immediate neighbors, had them briefly meet my little eloper, and asked if they ever saw him running up or down the street unattended to kindly scoop him up. I prepared them with one quick sentence that he might resist, but he responds well to talking in a soft voice about “going to get mom”. I’m so glad I did this! My little was SAVED by one of those neighbors about a month ago.

  • We have always had one of these slide bolts high on our door to the basement. Inexpensive, and easy to put them too high for a climber to reach. Also safety tats – http://www.safetytat.com/ My child doesn’t like wearing anything, but loves tatoos.

    Great post.

    http://www.houseofantiquehardware.com/sliding-door-locks-6-contemporary-surface-bolt?utm_source=froog&utm_medium=cse-nc&utm_campaign=gdf&partner=froog&gdftrk=gdfV22090_a_7c472_a_7c4382_a_7cR_d_01IH_d_11046_d_003X&gclid=CKPL5a30qbcCFTBo7Aody2kAhw

  • One other thing of note for when you’re out and about–take a picture of your kiddo on your phone when you arrive or at your home before you leave for the activity/errands/etc. You’ll have an updated photo in case you need to share it with authorities. On top of that, you’ll know exactly what your kiddo is wearing–in the heat of the moment if s/he gets lost and you panic, you might not be able to recall what they are wearing!

  • My now 8 year old (no DS) was a runner…I think the scariest time was when we were in a hotel room (4 adults and our 2 older children) when she was about Bella’s age (2 1/2), she opened the room door, walked down the hallway, got onto the elevator and ended up in the lobby – thankfully, someone saw her and stopped her in the lobby because she was headed toward the automatic doors that would have opened wide onto a busy city street – we had six other people in a small room and she still managed to get out without anyone seeing or hearing anything! I already see that fearlessness in Bella and is scares me…I’m ordering an ID bracelet soon and have looked into the tracking devices before….she can already open doors and gates (we have a special lock on one gate already that blocks her access to the stairs leading to our front door), but after reading your post, I realize how easy it would be for her to get out the back door. Yikes.

  • Oh goodness. What is it with all of our escaping, daring children? I still like the idea of microchipping, but since that isn’t an option 😛 I need to go with the keyed deadbolt. Bear is a climber and refuses to wear shoes (and clothes apparently when she busts out of the house). We have the ID band, but than only works if she is wearing it and she is adapt at removing jewelry with her teeth.

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