The Cultural Value of Disability… & Star Trek

The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down is a the story of a fiercely frustrating cultural clash, the crux of which lies the differing perceptions of one particular disability: epilepsy.
In the story, a Hmong refugee child living with her family in Central California has epilepsy, complete with grand mal seizures. Epilepsy, viewed within the Hmong culture, is a blessing, a gift from the gods, in which the spirit of the gods catches within the mortal soul and makes one fall.  The Hmong family doesn’t want to “cure” their daughter; the American social, health and protection workers do.
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This story has been tickling the edges of my mind for a while in that ‘what was it?‘ kind of tantalizing, trying-to-put-my-finger-on-it way. Like picking a sliver of eggshell out of a bowl of eggs, the tiny piece slipping once again just as I get a little closer.
And then, I got it. I got that little thing under my finger. I connected what it was that I wanted to remember: the cultural value of disability.
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In this storm that has been raging regarding disability, prenatal testing and the economics of disability, case after case is made on the value of a life that is different – or the power of choice. The importance of accurate advice to those women who need and want it. I agree with all that and what I also think is that nothing will fundamentally change so long as our culture continues to regard disability as nothing but a lodestone, occasionally paraded out as “inspiration”.We do not, as a society, look at individuals with disabilities as unique people with unique gifts. Not unique as that condescending “special“; rather, unique as each flower is unique, each star, blade of grass, hummingbird – unique as each and every human being is unique. No more, no less, and all worthy of delight in their respective ways.

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As a society, we do not seek out what an individual with Down syndrome – or _______ fill in the blank disability – is going to offer us; we try and force that person into the societal box.

We say, fix that, that and that and you’ll be good for this, this and that. We assess, we measure, we say, fine you are at this level and so you are fit for x,y.z. Go make some coffee at Starbucks because you can handle repetition and have a skill-set suited to simple tasks.

We don’t say: you dance like a wild mad woman and your joy brings joy so let us use you as a healer. Let us respect that you have this energy and power and can bring real good and positive change to the depressed, the unhappy, the people that need your light.

We don’t say, you are Deaf – you see, observe and note: let us respect that you have the power to communicate without words, let us use your power and you will be our ambassador in situations in which we need to observe, see, and note.

We don’t say, you are highly sensitive – your body is like the canary in the mine. Let us respect and honour your sensitivity and learn what needs changing in our environment. Something is wrong, is off, and you can help us understand what that is.

We don’t say, you are depressed – and so many of us are depressed! What is happening within our collective whole – the framework in which we build this thing called ‘culture’ upon? We were not born with this kind of sorrow; something about the way we are choosing to live is affecting us negatively: let’s find it. Change it. Live in different ways that do not cause us to become sad.

We don’t look at the contribution of disability in and of itself, you see.

We are not looking at disability and seeing it as an opportunity for growth, change, forward movement and advancement of our human race as a whole: we are looking at it like it’s a problem.

Something to be fixed.

Broken bits of human flesh that need mending.

We are trying to shove people that are especially unique into a mold that just does not fit, rather than looking at the mold and wondering how we can get rid of it, the mold.

Those of us with a child with a disability know that our children bring with them gifts, just as all children do. We clamour for attention – we want the world to know this truth.

We say, ‘hey! hey! look – look at my kid, look at my life! we are normal – I was wrong, so wrong, before disability came into my life!‘ and the outside world scoffs and thinks we are somehow trying to validate the fact that we have a child who is different, “she’s making the best of a bad situation,” they say.

And we want them to know, ‘no, no! REALLY! I am telling you the solid gold truth!

Perhaps I am jaded, but while I think that jumping up and down and clamouring does more good than nothing, I have a hard time seeing that anything will truly change unless our collective perception of disability itself changes.

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star trek 1And now Star Trek.
Star Trek provided scientists with the inspiration to do more, try harder.
They saw what was fantasy on TV in the time in which computers were as big as a room. Engineers were inspired to try and create cell phones, smaller computers, visual phones, automatically-opening doors – and they did.
They didn’t see Star Trek as an “intergalactic” floating bucket of impossible dreams.
They saw it as opportunity. 
This is what I crave for us with disabilities: that disability be recognized as an opportunity for growth. That it be valued and respected for contributing in valid ways to our society, in and of itself as the diverse thinking and experience that all people inherently bring contribute to a vastly richer human race.

 

Meriah
Meriah Nichols is teacher and artist who lives in a yurt off the grid. She is deaf, has 3 kids (one with Down syndrome) and a lot of chickens. She writes about travel, disability, and getting dishes done. She likes her tea Earl Grey and hot.
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